On a glass window, the rain drops fall… Drop by drop, a
crystal mosaic forms; shiny droplets sticking to the glass and then dripping
ever so gracefully down its smooth surface. Behind the mosaic, a backdrop of an
overcast sky and wet tree tops excites my mind. The neighborhood cars and
apartment buildings are all bathed clean, their grime and dust collecting in
the puddles that now form on the street. On a glass window, the rain drops
fall, only a figment of my imagination as I wait ever so expectantly for the
monsoon rains that never arrived.
Monsoon in Karachi is one of those things that I look
forward to every year. It’s just one of those times of the year which has its
own charm, the rare cloudy skies, cool summer breezes and those rain showers
which bring out the colors of the city. This year, Ramadan fell in what would
be the peak of our Monsoon season, and even though the skies were overcast for
the first few weeks, the rains never came. There were those occasional moments
when I stood in Taraweeh prayer in our Masjid courtyard and it began drizzling,
ever so lightly. But the drizzles lasted only for moments, coming and going on
occasional nights stretched far in between. It just wasn’t the same. Likewise,
this Ramadan wasn’t the same.
For starters, this was my first Ramadan experience since I
got my first job last year. Gone were the easy school and college days, where
you could doze off for a nap in class or laze off at home during holidays. I
was apprehensive at this new prospect of how I’ll have to adapt my Ramadan
schedule with my work demands. Anticipating a tough month, I went in with a
plan to balance my spiritual, work and personal objectives. There are so many
things that I have been intending to do for the past many months, yet
procrastination, distractions and other priorities left me no chance of chasing
them. Secondly, the past year has been relentless at pulling me into the fast
lane of the rat race of life. Ever since I started working, I have fallen prey
to the same work-eat-sleep-repeat cycle day after grueling day. There has been
no time spent in planning for the long run, and I could feel the rust start
gathering on my personal ambitions. And it seems right now that I’m heading for
the path I have dreaded all my life, that one day I will look upon my personal
ambitions as myths and dreams only a part of my imagination, like the rain I’m
still waiting for.
I had gone in with a plan to explore the long term
possibilities (career track, higher education) seriously and rekindle some of
my old hobbies once more. I had planned to start reading more, writing more and
discovering some more knowledge to keep on learning new things and break out of
my stagnant state where I was aimlessly spending time online, playing video
games or just wasting time. Hence, the idea was to have a more productive
Ramadan, establish some good, new habits and come out the other side with a
clearer direction on where I was going. It was a time for self-evaluation and
strategic planning.
Alas though, the short term objectives for work have been
overwhelming for the past month or so. I can’t be grateful enough that I have
gotten the chance to work in full on a 360 degree marketing campaign, being
able to channel good influence on most campaign components; I have been living
an amateur marketeer’s dream. However, the need to plan for the long term was
still strong because my future growth at my current workplace remains in question,
with a likely glass ceiling preventing my rise. My current project has been
extremely demanding and I have been spending day and night working on it;
however, it has also been extremely rewarding in terms of what I’ve managed to
learn. Therefore, most of my month was spent working and in spiritual pursuits,
hoping for answers.
So even though I was apparently gaining in the short term
from my work on the campaign, my long term outlook still remains bleak. I am
torn in conflict for I have been using all my time productively and yet have not
been able to find the time for myself, to squeeze in my personal objectives or plan my
long-term work objectives.
This period has left me confused. At a time when I actually
shunned all kind of distractions and tried to focus solely on what’s important
to me, I found that I still could not find the time. So how does that bode for
the future? Responsibilities will surely increase… at home and at work. So how
then will I cope? The question troubles me greatly, and I struggle to find some
way to continue with the plan I had made.
During this time, fortunately, I got the chance to get back
on track with an old friend who now happened to be working with me. I
eventually discovered our mutual love for some things, which included some of
my hobbies and interests at heart. We discussed the love for books, for writing
and for getting lost when traversing God’s green earth; I often found a few of
these things in another person but I realized that there was hardly anyone I
knew who shared exactly the same interests. Yet there she was, someone I
already knew but had chosen to overlook for the longest time. We managed to
find some time to talk in between, as I worked helplessly during the morning
and afternoon. It was with the help of some of those talks that I finally
mustered enough motivation to squeeze, bit by bit, some time to start reading
again, to start writing again. I came to realize that not all my objectives can
be covered through self-isolation. Sometimes, we need that extra push from a
friend to start us on our way.
To look ahead for the long term, I realized that isolation
and focus is not the simple key, but invited opinions and help from those close
to us is what we often need, plus always a little faith. However, that only
answered half my questions. I may have some clarity on how to get back to what’s
important for me (my personal goals), but I still do not know exactly where the
road leads. I do not know where my long term work objectives lead to? What is
my next step after my current project ends? Will I be recognized for all the
effort I have put in and allowed a growth path at my current workplace? Or is
there an entirely different path… a path where my long term, hazy goals are
related to the interests that are important to me. I am confused. My current
work on the campaign has set me up for another trip of Pakistan like last
October. I am confused, but I look forward to traveling the diverse-scape of
Pakistan, and to discover new paths where I can get lost… get lost so I can find
myself again.
Today is the last day of Ramadan and the monsoon seems to be
over. The overcast clouds have dissolved to make way for the intense sun and
heat which was missing for the entire month. Ramadan’s parting has left me
confused, but still I wait… hopeful for some answers. The glass windows shine
bright with the glare of the sun, dry of the silver mosaic which never formed.
The rain drops never fell, but the road to the heart of Pakistan is about to
open once more… so I hang on to hope. Pakistan beckons once more, a confused
land with much to discover on every path; it calls out to me. Just like I
rediscovered how a friend can motivate me, I hope to rediscover Pakistan. I am
confused, but still I hang on, hopeful for answers, waiting for the rain… I hang
on to faith.
I decided to share this little poem here, a discovery I made while riding a subway train in NYC in June; a little discovery helping me to discover new paths in more places. Noche de Lluvia, Spanish for Night of Rain:
